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The Weight of Single Motherhood: My Truth and My Boundaries

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A Moment to Reflect Hello, my absolutely brilliant and amazing people. Today has been overwhelming for me, and I just needed a moment to wind down and share my thoughts with you. I never imagined myself in the position I’m in now. Some would call me a “ baby mama ,” others would say I made the biggest mistake of my life. The media loves to criticize women like me, and honestly, I’ve criticized myself , too. But today, I want to talk about something deeper—something many women don’t talk about enough . Choosing the Wrong Partner: My Reality Check The father of my child and I went to high school together . He took me to prom. If I’m being honest, he was never my first choice. We came from different worlds, and our values didn’t align. But he was kind to me , and nobody else seemed to find him attractive or interesting, so I decided to give him a chance . I regret that choice . The back-and-forth between us has been exhausting, and while the full details are for another day, I want to f...

Breaking Free from Baby Mama Drama: A Love Letter to Moms Who Do It All

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~ Checking In and Keeping It Real ~ Hey there, lovely readers! I just wanted to check in and share some real thoughts with you today. I know many of you can relate, especially those navigating the world of baby mama drama . As much as I hate the term “baby mama,” I find myself in that position. I didn’t marry him before having kids, and now here I am, raising my daughter, Kamela , all on my own. It wasn’t the plan, but it’s my reality. I think a lot of women, especially those with children, deal with the pressure to get their children’s father involved, whether they had a father in their life or not. Society tells us women that we need this — that we need a father figure to show up. But when you’re doing it alone, you can’t help but wonder: “Am I falling short?” The Bare Minimum: Why It’s Not Enough I’ve been there — the people who tell me I should be happy with the bare minimum. “At least he’s doing something,” they say. Well, let me tell you, I don’t think “something” is enough. If I...

TikTok Drama Exposed: SlimthickKim, Gotitboyant2.0, and the Dangers of Online Relationships

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Breaking News Update: Lies, Deception, and Colorism—The Drama Gets Even Deeper! The plot just thickened in the crazy TikTok drama surrounding SlimthickKim and Gotitboyant2.0 . Enter NYdaGod , who exposed that Gotitboyant2.0 lied about having a daughter to cover up his actions. It turns out, the daughter excuse was just a smokescreen, as NYdaGod caught him in the act—he was hanging out with her, not SlimthickKim , while claiming to be with his daughter. And it doesn’t stop there— NYdaGod has also sparked a conversation about colorism, with accusations that Gotitboyant2.0 made degrading comments about SlimthickKim’s appearance because of her dark skin. This is rapidly becoming a tale of manipulation, deceit, and deep-rooted issues—stay tuned as more details unfold! Hey, my blog friends! I’ve got a wild story for you today that’s been circulating on TikTok , and I couldn’t help but dive in and share my thoughts. If you’ve been keeping up with the TikTok drama lately, you’ve probably...

Living with PMDD: A Battle Within

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Hello, my amazing readers. How are you all doing? As I’m writing this, it’s a Monday, and yesterday, my period decided to make a grand entrance—uninvited, as usual. Here’s a fun fact about me: I struggle with PMDD—Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder. I’ve mentioned before that I’m Liberian by nationality, but I’ve been in the U.S. since I was four years old. Growing up, PMDD was never something I heard about, but looking back, I realize I’ve been battling it for a long time. Was I born this way? Did I unlock it like a secret level in a video game? No clue. I think back to high school—when I felt so lost that I tried not to be here anymore. My method? Overdosing on birth control pills . It didn’t work (thank God), but back then, I was on a mission. My feminine health has always been a rollercoaster, and let’s just say—this is one ride I’d love to get off of. The Rollercoaster of Birth Control and My IUD Experience I’ve tried so many types of birth control, and each one had different effects...

Navigating Uncertainty: A Call for Unity and Understanding

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Dear Reader, In these turbulent times, I find myself reflecting on the challenges we all face. The world seems increasingly chaotic, and it’s easy to feel misunderstood. I want you to know that I understand, and I believe the world needs more empathy and unity . The Political Landscape and Its Impact on Communities of Color The recent elections have highlighted deep divisions within our society. As a Liberian-born American citizen, I’ve observed the complexities faced by Black women and the broader Black community. The majority support for Kamala Harris juxtaposed with the election of Donald Trump has profound implications for people of color. It often feels as though society has pitted us against each other, creating an illusion of opposition. Personal Reflections on Immigration and Fear During the election, I witnessed members of my Liberian community voting against their interests, swayed by promises that ultimately led to heartbreak. Now, many face deportation , living in con...

The Power of The Audacity: What Black Women Can Learn From Onijah Robinson’s Journey

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Let’s talk about Onijah Robinson . You may have heard about her journey to Pakistan , the struggles with her mental health, and the overwhelming media coverage of it all. But there’s one thing people aren’t really talking about—what this woman taught us. Spoiler alert: It’s all about audacity . Onijah traveled to Pakistan with one goal: to connect with a 19-year-old boy. What happened next? Well, she ended up receiving multiple marriage proposals and gained the attention of an entire nation. She didn’t just show up—she commanded respect and care. And let’s be real: That’s powerful. But what’s the deeper lesson here? It’s not about the relationship or even her mental health. It’s about the raw, unfiltered audacity to go after what you want, no matter the odds. And that’s something we as Black women can learn from . Audacity: The Secret Ingredient Onijah came to Pakistan fully covered, fully herself, and fully asking for what she wanted. But what’s fascinating is that she wasn’t askin...

Get to Know Mo: The Woman Behind Demand Moexhilarated

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Hello, My Amazing Readers! How are you doing today? I hope everything is going wonderfully for you. I realize I’ve never really introduced myself properly, and I think it’s important for you to get to know me, especially since I plan on sticking around for a long time. So, let’s dive in! Who Am I? My name is Morgatha , but you can call me Mo . I am the creator of the brand Demand Moexhilarated . You can find me on platforms like TikTok, Facebook , and other social media . I’m a social media enthusiast , but I’m also working hard to become a social worker . Yes, I’ve recently turned 30 (November 25), and I’m ready for this next chapter in my life. A Little Bit About My Background I was born in Liberia , and I was partially raised in Staten Island, New York, before moving to Minnesota in the 7th grade. I come from a family of immigrants , and my life has been shaped by the challenges and triumphs that come with that. My brother was deported, which deeply impacted my family. I’ve got ...