When Sincere Was My Mr. Big: Why It Wasn’t Meant to Be

Choosing Myself Over Love

Hello My Beautiful People;

In the journey of love, we sometimes meet people who seem like they could be “the one,” only to realize they’re not. You know, like Carrie Bradshaw’s relationship with Mr. Big in Sex and the City—a connection that felt destined, but was ultimately not the right fit. I’ve recently experienced something similar with someone I’ll refer to as Sincere, and it’s taken me time to process why it just wasn’t meant to be. I’ve realized that sometimes, the hardest choice is choosing yourself over the person you thought you were supposed to be with.

The Early Days: The Connection That Felt Real

Like many stories that start out with excitement and passion, my connection with Sincere began with undeniable chemistry. We connected, and I found myself falling for him in a way that felt intense, almost like a fairytale. There were moments where he made me feel wanted, desired, and loved. The intimacy between us was something I cherished, and the connection I thought we had seemed like the start of something beautiful.

But, just like Carrie and Mr. Big, it wasn’t all smooth sailing. Despite the intense feelings we shared, Sincere wasn’t ready to give me what I needed. I pushed for commitment, wanting something stable, but he wasn’t able to meet me where I was. And like Carrie’s ups and downs with Mr. Big, we both struggled with the cycle of getting close only to fall back, only to repeat it again.

Why It Felt Like Mr. Big: The Magnetic Pull

Sincere had that magnetic pull, much like Mr. Big did for Carrie. He was the person I could see myself with long-term, but every time we hit a bump, it was clear that we weren’t on the same page about what we wanted out of life. Even when we tried to make it work, the distance and the hesitation on his part made it impossible for me to feel truly secure. I was constantly waiting for him to take that next step, but it never came.

And much like Carrie, I kept hoping he would change, that he’d be the one to commit to me when the timing was right. But as I continued to grow, I realized I couldn’t keep putting my life on hold, waiting for someone else to catch up. I had to make a choice, just like Carrie had to choose herself over Big, time and time again.

The Heartbreaking Goodbye: Letting Go of Sincere

The hardest part of this whole experience was knowing I had to walk away. I had to let go, not because I didn’t love Sincere, but because I realized I wasn’t loving myself in the process. When I chose to step away, I felt like I was breaking my own heart. It was heartbreaking to say no to the person I thought I would spend my life with, but I knew it was the only way I could heal and create space for the love I truly deserved.

Choosing Myself: The Most Empowering Decision

I didn’t want to be like Carrie, who let her heart rule her decisions instead of listening to her own needs and desires. I didn’t want to let loneliness cloud my judgment or rush back into a relationship that wasn’t right for me. Choosing myself was the hardest decision I’ve made in a long time, but it’s been the most empowering one. As much as I miss Sincere, I know that I’m doing what’s best for my future, my happiness, and my growth.

Conclusion: Accepting That It Wasn’t Meant to Be

The love I wanted with Sincere wasn’t meant to be, and that’s okay. Sometimes, we have to experience the heartache to learn the importance of choosing ourselves. Just like Carrie Bradshaw learned in Sex and the City, sometimes the love of our lives isn’t the one we end up with. And that’s alright. I’m learning to embrace the possibility that the love I deserve is out there and it starts with me loving myself first.

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